Stay True To You

By: Donaven Jones

“Wanting to be someone else is a waste of the person you are.” –Marilyn Monroe.

Some people may feel like they’re an outcast or different than everyone, which makes them change who they are at times in order to fit in. But you don’t have to change who you are to be accepted. Here are 5 ways to be “in” while still being you.

·      Show the Truth- This is one of the most important things about being your self. Every person has a different personality. You may be loud and outgoing or quiet and shy. But on the other hand, all of your friends may have the opposite personality as you. Don’t pretend to be anyone your not!

·      Like What You Like- You can like any type of music, food or fashion. Just because the people around you don’t like what you do doesn’t mean you shouldn’t.

·      #ButThat’sNoneOfMyBusiness-Who cares if people talk about you? It doesn’t matter if people have something negative to say about you. As long as you’re secure in your personality that’s all that matters. Don’t listen to the rumors and lies. When people talk about you behind your back they’re probably jealous of you and what you have.

  

·      Stay Positive- If you are hanging around negative people who always put you down or are always being mean to you, put more positivity in your life.

·      Confidence Is Key- Another way to be you is by being confident. Don’t shy away from other people. It will make you seem anti-social and depressed. Create your own fashion sense, and be confident in it. And always smile; smiling will make people notice you more.

You don’t have to try to be anyone other than yourself. If people don’t accept you the way you are, SO WHAT! The only thing that matters is liking who you are. According to Essential Life Skills.net “Many young people believe that when they do things to please their peers, such as drink when they shouldn’t or behave and party in inappropriate ways, they will be popular and liked.” But, in reality, it’s when you are true to yourself that you allow your individuality and uniqueness to shine through. I promise to be me! Can you promise to be you?